2010年3月23日星期二

置之死地而後生

話說AD一句揶揄,日後交流團唔好俾啲有自閉症的去,M就像天下間愛護小雞的雞媽媽一樣,小雞有難,更何況被責難的是至愛小雞,天賦自然反映--撲翅,雞媽媽心想,Yan怎能受這氣!M提高聲線︰Yan不是自閉的,她只是慢熱咋!(語氣好重) 氣氛轉凝重。

之後,不知誰提議讓四個有過度活躍症的馬騮仔扮披頭四作展才華表演,AD竟很Buy這個提議,不用唱,只是作披頭四裝扮,在台上跟著披頭四名曲裝腔作勢扭動一番罷了,而這項工程恰巧將會由M主責督促進行。M心想︰教四隻過度活躍症的馬騮扮演披頭四?真係佢哋唔死我死!所以即刻表示反對此提議,說知易行難。但AD偏執意,竟說出︰點解唔得?披頭四都係練出來架喇!此話一出,M憤而拍案︰咁披頭四有無過度活躍症呀?全世界得一個樂隊叫「披頭四」咋!

鴉雀無聲!!!

事後問M有無後悔過自己咁衝動,M說都有後悔過,但即刻又以一種大無畏姿態笑了,說,「如不去儘啲,真係要訓練那四隻馬騮架,咁我咪死得仲快!」

M的這種置之死地而後生的做法,於很於多人來說,是可望而不可及的。我在想,在漫長的生命旅程中,難免會遇到一些自己無法解決的難題,就如一團打晒亂結的毛冷,與其慢慢去解開那些死結,(且每每是解之不盡),倒不如利利索索地快刀斬亂麻來得痛快!讓事情毀壞殆盡,不給自己留半點後路,你反而能抽身而去,二袖清風!一切儘是身外物!

8 則留言:

卡臣 說...

長痛不如短痛
不失一個好辦法

匿名 說...

Hi Coffee n tea,
I really like article, especially the last statement of it.
It's so difficult for us to be free from a lot of things, such as material comfort and pleasure, social pressure caused by others, fame, money, fashion, 7 deadly sins...and so on. We just cannot understand that we brought nothing to this world when we were born. Also, we are not able to bring anything with us when we die. If we are not so forgetful, maybe we can live a happier and easier life sometimes. I wish you a lot courage to be different, wisdom and loving kindness to others.
BbBb

Coffee n Tea 說...

卡臣︰

嘿嘿,M剎時衝動亦未必是好事!

Coffee n Tea 說...

Hi BbBb,

Thanks for your appreciation, I like what you said also. Yeah, too many things to face in our life, and we carry too much on our way, which to carry on and which to put down,we need to handle them properly without regrets.

Coffee

笑談風月 說...

反正無法討好全世界,去盡點,至少能呈一時之快。不過,對四個孩子而言,就錯失一個爭取成就感的機會,假如搞活動是M的責任或工作,M有便點那個了。

嚴明 說...

哈,有些事情,就是要放棄的,除非是有個天使心。

Coffee n Tea 說...

風月︰

M會繼續搞活動的,只不過不是扮「披頭四」。

Coffee n Tea 說...

嚴明︰

係呀!雙手抓滿東西,自然無空間,有時的確要懂清空一些。

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